No Place for Abuse

Regardless of how much you love your mate and believe in who they are, there is NEVER an appropriate time for abuse, whether physical, emotional, or verbal. If your mate shows aggression or any form of abuse toward you, seek counseling for both of you immediately to try to work through things. If your mate refuses to go, even if it is hard, leave. First is your safety. Second, it is possible for people to learn ways in which to manage their aggressions. If this is the case, the life of the relationship has a much better chance of surviving!

Open Your Eyes

Do not drive yourself crazy with this, but take notice of how your relationship is going. Open your eyes and take stock of what is and is not working in your relationship. Are there definite things missing or definite problem areas that  need to be worked on? Think about it. If you invest in the stock market, you pay attention to what is going on so you can make changes if needed. Your relationship is far more than the stock market but requires some of the same strategies.

Do not waste the powers you have

I got the power to achieve anything I want. The problem is am I using it right?

Steve Pavlina gives some advices how to use, or not use your power:

• Stop complaining - because all you do is just wasting you time. You better look for solution, not a complain
• Self doubt - do the opposite, what would you do if you were 100% sure you will succeed in everything you will start doing and spending enought time on it?
• Cowardice - 
  You generate fear when you send energy to what you don’t want — by thinking about it, dwelling on it, imagining it, etc.
• Arguing - in most of the cases arguing is also wasting of time. May be you are right, may be your solution is better, but sometimes it is better to let other people to feel right and just make them happy. In long term relationship it could pay you back.
• Asking permission - usually people are a little bit negative if you are trying to invent something new or trying to achieve more than they. You better ask for the challenge and constuctive critic but not for support and permision

Own your power!

Stop giving away your power — to other people, to your fears, to anything you don’t want. Use your power positively and creatively. Channel the tremendous energy inside of you to manifest your desires.

How to turn this theory in the practic? Next time you will face the problem, try to remember those models:

 

• Complaining
• Self doubt 
• Cowardice 
• Arguing 
• Asking permission 

Try to use you power achieving the goal and not abusing them

PS: Steve gives us the free audio   Peak Performance Paraliminal - Paul R. Scheele With Tom McCarthy

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