No Place for Abuse

Regardless of how much you love your mate and believe in who they are, there is NEVER an appropriate time for abuse, whether physical, emotional, or verbal. If your mate shows aggression or any form of abuse toward you, seek counseling for both of you immediately to try to work through things. If your mate refuses to go, even if it is hard, leave. First is your safety. Second, it is possible for people to learn ways in which to manage their aggressions. If this is the case, the life of the relationship has a much better chance of surviving!

Open Your Eyes

Do not drive yourself crazy with this, but take notice of how your relationship is going. Open your eyes and take stock of what is and is not working in your relationship. Are there definite things missing or definite problem areas that  need to be worked on? Think about it. If you invest in the stock market, you pay attention to what is going on so you can make changes if needed. Your relationship is far more than the stock market but requires some of the same strategies.

To Tell or Not to Tell

Experts will disagree on how much of a personŝs past should be shared in a relationship and while some things probably should be shared, most people lean more to not sharing every aspect of the past. First, it is the past. Think back to how much people grow through the teen years to mid-twenties. Offering unnecessary information from the past is a great way to create distrust, insecurity, and more questions than answers. Be wise when sharing.




Respect Privacy


When two people come together in a relationship, each person has their own set of history. There are yearbooks, maybe love letters from a first love, other objects that may not seem important to one person but to the owner, they have a special meaning. It is important to respect the privacy of your mateŝs “stuff.” Do not dig through boxes of things owned by your mate out of curiosity. Instead, allow them to bring those things out if they feel it is necessary. By helping yourself, you are disrespecting something sacred to your mate, which is not healthy for any relationship.

Ruedos figuros
Figūra	Tarimas	Vertimas, paaiškinimas
Guapea	Guapea	Guapo = gražus. Jungiamasis žingsnis
Para abajo	Para abacho	Atgal, žemyn
Para arriba	Ariba	Pirmyn, aukštyn
Un Tarro	Un Taro	Ąsotis
Un Tarro descarado	Un taro deskarado	Ąsotis (nepaleidžiant rankų)
Exhibela	Egzibelia	parodyk ją. Merginos posūkis po ranka.
Dile que no	Dile ke no	Pasakyk jai, kad ne
Dame una	Dame (una)	Duok man (viena)
Dame dos	Dame dos	Duok man du (dvi)
Dos con dos	Dos kon dos	Kaip dame dos, tik praeidami suplojam du kart
Enchufla	Enčiuflia	Įjunk ją
Enchufla Castigala ( doble )	Enčiuflia kastigala ( doble )	Enčiuflia nubausk ją ( du kartus ). Pliaukšt per ranką ir per užpakalį :)
Enchufla doble	Enčiuflia doble	Įjunk ją (dvigubas)
Enchufla con mambo	Enčiuflia kon mambo	Enčiuflia su "mambo kick" žingsneliu ir dile que no
Cero	Zero	0. Apeiname dešinėj esančią merginą ir grįžtam pas savo.
Ocho	Očio	8. Aštuoniuke apeinam dvi merginas iš dešinės ir grįžtam pas savo
Ocho con castigala	Ocho kon kastigala	8 su nubaudimu
Adios	Adjos	Atsisveikinimas
Adios con la prima	Adjos kom lia prima	Atsisveikinimas su sesere
Familia	Familija	Šeimynėlė. Pradžia, kaip adios com la prima
Cheque el material	Ček el material	Patikrink medžiagą
Ni pa'ti ni pa'mi	Ni pa ti ni pa mi	Nei tau, nei man
Silla	Sija	Kėdė
Una foto	foto	Kaip foto sustink
Una arriba	una ariba	Dame una ir einam pas kairėje esančią merginą
Enchufla arriba	enčiuflia ariba	Enchufla, po to pas merginą kairėje.
Adios arriba	Adjos ariba	Adios, po to pas mergina kairėje.
Foto Lituano	Foto Lituano	Lietuviškas foto
Vacilala	Vasilala	Išsuk ją
Vacilala los dos	Vasilala lios dos	Išsuk ją ir sukis pats :) (dvigubas)
Sombrero	Sombrero	Meksikietiška skrybėlė
Abrazo Lituano	Abraso	Apsikabinimas lietuviškas
Un beso	Un beso	1 bučkis (Kitam / -ai)
Dos besos	Dos besos	2 bučkiai savam / -ai su enchufla
Tres besos	Tres besos	3 bučkiai ( 1 kitam / -ai ir 2 savam / -ai su enchufla )
Paseala	Pasealia	Pavedžiok ją + enchufla
Caminala	Kaminala	Pasivaikščiojimas su dama + enchufla
Candado	Kandado	Spyna
Habana	Havana	Candado + Exhibela + Setenta figuros pabaiga
Setenta	Setenta	70
Mosquito	Moskito	Uodas
Canguro	Kanguro	Kengūra
Re-union		Enchufla ir vyru susikabinimas rato centre
Carrusel	Karusel	Karuselė
Play uno / dos / tres		Enchufla suplojant 1, 2, 3 kartus

Sunrise/Sunset

Too often people miss the beautiful miracle of a sunrise or sunset. Schedule time to get up early one morning with a thermos of hot coffee or cappuccino and find a quiet place where the two of you can go just to watch the sun rise or set. Appreciate what nature has to offer and share it with each other.

Explorations 

Find something you are both interested in exploring and do it together. For example, if you live in a place where there are caves, make a day of driving around and exploring caves. Be sure to take the right equipment and safety precautions but this puts you both in a position of trusting each other and discovering something new and exciting together.